I’m sick and fucking tired of people who constantly bitch about wanting change, yet refuse to take any actions necessary in order to create something new. The time you take to bitch about your situation would be better spent making actual changes. If you’re unhappy- start doing shit that makes you happy. Tired of your job- get a new one. Bored with the people around you who have absolutely nothing in common with you- reach out to new people.
What I’ve learned is that nothing is going to change unless you make it. Nothing. The universe isn’t going to hand you a fresh start. And there is absolutely fucking nothing you can do about that. But you know what you CAN do? Start from today. Start from right god damn now. Baby steps. Find something that excites you. Find something that makes you smile. That moves you. And pursue it. But do not complain about it. Because I’ve learned another thing- those busy complaining are those who remain unchanged. Unmoved. Unhappy. Robbed of excitement.
People want attention. They crave it. They want your pity and your time. Most people don’t really want any actual change. Or else they wouldn’t continuously and knowingly put themselves in the exact same situations they were so hell bent on bitching about only a few days prior.
Trust me, I understand fucked up situations pretty well. From the all too common cheating boyfriend to taking care of your hardcore drug dependent brother to family suicide. But I also know of being determined to create excitement. To change any surrounding I deem to be unmoving. I ramble, sure. Guilty. I’ve always got a million thoughts, questions, ideas running through my head, searching for a way out. But I also know when to take action. Learn. Life has the ability to be amazing if you make it that way. Clock work. Move yourself. Or remain stuck. Stagnant. Your call, your move, your choice. And it is NOW.